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8 Secrets Of Marriage Conflict Resolution

Published by dangreer on January 10, 2014

Have you ever been in a fight with your spouse and by the end of the argument you can’t even remember what started it all in the first place. When we get in conflict our natural response is to avoid pain and cast blame. In reality its never just one person’s fault and we need to own our part of the problem. This post was a good reminder for me:

In his book, Learning to Live with the Love of Your Life… And Loving It!, Dr. Neil Clark Warren provides eight secrets to working through conflict with your spouse.

1. Marriage is a “We” Business

Dr. Warren says, “Any couple who gains a ‘we’ perspective eventually experiences great success in marriage.” Shift the focus of your marriage to a “we” mentality, especially in conflict.

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